Friday 24 February 2012

WHAT IS EUPHEMISMS & DYSPHEMISMS LANGUAGE?


# A euphemism is the substitution of a mild, inoffensive, relatively uncontroversial phrase, for a frank expression that might offend or otherwise suggest something unpleasant to the audience.


# The word euphemism comes from the Greek word ευφημία (euphemia), meaning "the use of words of good omen", which in turn is derived from the Greek root-words eu (ευ), "good/well" + pheme(φήμι) "speech/speaking". The term euphemism itself was used as a euphemism by the ancient Greeks, meaning "to keep a holy silence" (speaking well by not speaking at all). 


# Euphemisms and Dysphemisms are two rhetorical devices that are quite common.  A Euphemism is a “positive” spin; it takes a word, phrase, or concept and makes it sound either neutral or more positive.  For example, we spin “death” and “died” more positive or neutral by phrases like, “bought the farm,” or “he’s pushing up daisies.”  Car dealerships no longer sell “used cars” they sell “pre-owned vehicles.” That brings me to dysphemisms; they are the “negative” slant.  So in the above example, the “freedom fighter” phrase would be a euphemism, and the “terrorist” phrase would be a dysphemism, just as an example.
~ Euphemism: "making something sound better"


  ~ Dysphemism: "making something sound worse"


# A euphemism is used as an alternative to a dispreferred expression, in order to avoid possible loss of face: either one's own face or, through giving offence, that of the audience, or of some third party.


#It is used when people want to find a polite or less direct way of talking about difficult or embarrassing topics like death or the bodily functions. Most people, for example, would find it very difficult to say in plain language.


# They are a universal feature of language usage; all cultures typically use them to talk about things they find terrifying. Similarly, we use euphemisms to express taboos, as we feel, on some instinctual level, that the euphemism keeps us at safe distance from the taboo itself. Another use of euphemisms is to elevate the status of something. but in general, we use euphemisms to express what is socially difficult to express in direct terms.




Short Glossary of Words and Their Euphemisms


stupid  -     slow
teacher  -   educator
small  -       quaint, cozy, petite
vagrant     -         homeless person
venereal disease-         social disease
victim             -    casualty
wrong            -     improper, questionable, impropriety (n)
totalitarian -        authoritarian
tramp      -  homeless person
ugly -  unattractive, modest, plain
person             -   representative, individual
perspire, perspiration- sweat
police officer          -     peace officer
poor children        -       at-risk children  
poor nation          -        emerging nation, developing nation, third-world nation
poor student       -        underachiever, underperformer
poor                       -      low-income, working class, modest, underprivileged
power failure        -       service interruption
prison                 -         correctional facility
prisoner               -        inmate, convict, detainee
problem                -       issue, challenge, complication
























Thursday 23 February 2012

THE PURSUIT OF HAPPYNESS

THE PURSUIT OF HAPPYNESS


In 1981, in San Francisco, the smart salesman and family man Chris Gardner invests the family savings in Osteo National bone-density scanners, an apparatus twice as expensive as an x-ray machine but with a slightly clearer image. This white elephant financially breaks the family, bringing troubles to his relationship with his wife Linda, who leaves him and moves to New York where she has taken a job in a pizza parlor. Their son Christopher stays with Chris because he and his wife both know that he will be able to take better care of him.
Without any money or a wife, but committed to his son, Chris sees a chance to fight for a stockbroker internship position at Dean Witter, offering a more promising career at the end of a six-month unpaid training period. During that period, Chris goes through a lot of hardship personally and professionally. When he thinks he is "stable," he finds that he has lost $600 when the government takes the last bit of money in his bank account for taxes. He is rendered homeless because he can't pay his rent. He is forced at one point to stay in a bathroom at a train station, and must scramble from work every day to the Glide Memorial United Methodist Church, which offers shelter to the homeless. He must leave work early every day so that he is there by 5:00 in the evening along with his son so that he may be assured of a place to sleep. He is seen carrying his suitcase to work because he doesn't have a home. At work, there are nineteen other candidates for the one position.

One day, he is called into an office and in it were the heads of Dean Witter. Chris thinks that he is about to be told the job will not be his as he says that he wore a shirt and tie for his final day. Then they tell him that he has been an excellent trainee and that tomorrow he will have to wear his shirt and tie again as it will be his first day as a broker. Chris struggles to hold back tears. Outside he begins to cry as the busy people of San Francisco walk past him. He rushes to his son's daycare, hugging him and knowing that after everything him and his son had been through things would be all right.

The final scene shows Chris walking with his son down a street. His son is telling him a joke, when a wealthy business man in a suit walks past. Chris looks back as the man continues on. The man in the suit is none other than the real Chris Gardner.

**Gardner’s incredible willpower and desire to become a broker eventually leads him out of scarcity and into employment. Miraculously, he lands a job as a trainee and rises through the ranks at respected companies like Dean Witter and Bear Stearns. His forceful resolve and uncanny ability to take charge of his life pays off exponentially. He becomes so successful that he opens his own brokerage company–Gardner Rich & Co. 

**The “Happyness” in the title comes from a misspelled word in the name of a daycare facility that Gardner considered for his son and ultimately rejected due to the error. The word also holds special importance to him personally due to the insight he gained while explaining the meaning of the word to his inquisitive boy.

# After watching this movie I can concluded that this is a great movie as it shows us many moral values that can be learn through the scenes. It shows how a person from nothing to be something. Chris had such a challenging journey in his life in order to gain success. Although his wife is not by his side to support him on what ever he do, but he has a smart little guy, Christopher who accompany him through the difficult journey of his life. This movie teach me that we have to be through all the challenges first before we achieve success. Without effort then we will not gain anything we want. Despite of all thing happen to Chris, he still be patient and strong, that's just because of his beloved son. He is not the one who get mad easily and also not to show his sadness, he kept inside and try to solve the problems by himself. That's the thing that I like about the main character in the movie. The father's love of his son whose willing to sacrifice all things that he have and to work harder just to make his son happy and live in a comfortable life. 

"Striving for happiness is a long, hard journey with many challenges. It requires eternal vigilance to win the victory. You cannot succeed with sporadic little flashes of effort. Constant and valiant living is necessary."
Jack H. Goaslind, Jr. 

"Happiness is not a matter of good fortune or worldly possessions. It's a mental attitude. It comes from appreciating what we have, instead of being miserable about what we don't have. It's so simple?yet so hard for the human mind to comprehend."
Bits and Pieces 

"Happiness is a journey, not a destination; happiness is to be found along the way not at the end of the road, for then the journey is over and it's too late. The time for happiness is today not tomorrow." 
Quoted by Paul H Dunn

Sunday 19 February 2012

Critical Thinking Traps & tips

Ever been stuck and feel like you can’t get out of your box? Maybe even backed into a corner? Our minds really don’t like to think. It defaults to a mental path we’ve created over and over again. It takes less energy and mental work to follow the same path or process. If we don’t vary our methods, we miss the obvious or some fresh idea. We get stuck. The consequence? We are predisposed to ignore the open spaces of our box. Our logic becomes counterproductive because we box ourselves in and produce the same solution to problem that we’ve always done. 
Great critical thinkers are able to remain objective, even in the most emotional of situations. They are able to remove their emotional investment, anxiety, sensitivities and even fears to stay focused and on task. 


CRITICAL THINKING TRAPS & TIPS



1. The Anchoring Trap: Over-Relying on First Thoughts.
initial impressions, ideas, estimates or data “anchor” subsequent thoughts
  • Always view a problem from different perspectives
  • Think on your own before consulting others
  • Seek information from a wide variety of sources
2. The Status Quo Trap: Keeping on Keeping On
 status quo automatically has an advantage over every other alternative
  • Consider the status quo as just another alternative.
  • Know your objectives.
  • Avoid exaggerating switching costs.
3. The Sunk Cost Trap: Protecting Earlier Choices
it's a sunk cost, and it shouldn't influence your decision
  • Be OK with making mistakes.
  • Listen to people who were not involved in the earlier decisions.
  • Focus on your goals.
4. The Confirmation Trap: Seeing What You Want to See
looking for information that will most likely support your initial point of view
  • Expose yourself to conflicting information.
  • Get a devil's advocate.
  • Don't ask leading questions.
5. The Incomplete Information Trap: Review Your Assumptions
overlooking a simple data element can make our intuitions go completely astray
  • Make your assumptions explicit.
  • Always favor hard data over mental simplifications.
6. The Conformity Trap: Everybody Else Is Doing It
other people's actions do heavily influence ours
  • Discount the influence of others.
  • Beware "social proof".
  • Be courageous.
7. The Illusion of Control Trap: Shooting in the Dark
we still tend to irrationally believe that we can somehow influence results. We just love to feel in control
  • Understand that randomness is part and parcel of life.
  • Beware of superstitions.
8. The Coincidence Trap: We Suck at Probabilities
Probabilities can be unintuitive.
  • Don't over-rely on gut estimates.
  • Beware of "after the fact" probabilities.
9. The Recall Trap: Not All Memories Are Created Equal
we analyze information based on experience, on what we can remember from it
  • Get hard data.
  • Be aware of your emotions.
10. The Superiority Trap: The Average is Above Average
people have much inflated views of themselves
  • Be humble.
  • Don't go overboard. 

When using lateral thinking just go crazy. Consider mundane and ridiculous ideas. You’re looking for the knock-off effect. One idea may be a stepping stone to another. It may feel strange and odd and don’t give up. At some point you will reach new innovations.

Psychologist Edward de Bono : “You cannot dig a hole in a
 different place by digging the same hole deeper.”


Garth Jowett PhD. is a professor at the University of Houstons school of Communications. In Living Smart he discusses how to develop critical thinking skills.